toasted ham and cheese baguette with pickled peppers and olives on the side

Food was great, the rest of the night not so much, everything was fine betwen us until last night.

My bf (28M) and I (24F) have been together for 3 years. Last night we ordered takeout and played a couples card game called Fight Night its about money, relationships and how you grew up. I thought it would just be a fun date night but one of the questions asked how our parents handled money growing up.

He told me his dad always controlled the finances, paid the bills and made all the big decisions. His mom never had a say in any of it, but he thinks their marriage worked great. Then he said that's exactly how he'd want our marriage to be. I asked if that meant I'd have to ask his permission to spend money and he said not for little things but if hes earning more, he should have more say in financial decisions.

I told him I dont want a marriage where one person controls everything just because they make more money. He kept saying that's how he grew up and that I was making a big deal out of a hypothetical question. We ended up arguing and I've been sleeping on the couch since. I don't even feel like being intimate with him right now. The worst part is we've talked about getting married before and I had no idea he thought this way.

I love him, but now I wanna know what else we might completely disagree on. Any advice?