I honestly hate how big this deck is😭😭 we bought this house about a month ago and I don’t understand why they would build a deck this big??? I have no idea what to do with it! Please help! I want to tear it apart and make it smaller but is there a way to make this deck look nice?? I have a pretty good size yard so that might be apart of why they made it so big but it’s honestly just annoying, please send me ideas😭

Let me start by saying SELF DIAGNOSING IS NOT VALID. You are NOT autistic just because someone on tiktok said

"Did you know, if you need to have your eyes closed in order to fall asleep, you have autism, adhd, bipolarity, DID, BPD, psychopathy, depression and PTSD?"

And before yall come at me with "well I always suspected I had autism, I got screened and then got my diagnosis" well this not about you, this is about people that self diagnose after experiencing the most normal day to day life things ever.

And they ALWAYS think that autism will give them a personality (since it's usually basic bitches with no personality that self diagnose to feel like they belong)

No, you're not a quirky crazy crackhead energy "neurospicy" person. Even worse when they say shit like

"Heh, I could NEVER be a neuro normie like yall, autism makes me special and quirky and full of personality".

You can't even like something anymore without them going "OMG URE AUTISTIC JUST LIKE MEEEE IM SOOOO AUTISTIC AHAHAHA"

And you can tell they larp the whole thing cus they'll see a tiktok autism personality and try to replicate it

"Dino nuggies..."

"You can not say overstimulated if you're nEuRoTyPiCaL, that word is for us neurospicy people ONLY >:("

Holy shiiiiiiittt yall lack a personality so bad. And I've seen people say that they've seen NUMEROUS specialists but they never fit the criteria, but its not because they're not autistic, no no no no no. ITS UHMMM BECAUSE IM A WOMAN AND ALSO A MINORITY AND IM ALSO POOR SO I MASKED ALL MY LIFE AND THE SPECIALIST ON THIS FIELD COULDNT TELL I WAS MASKING. ITS THE SYSTEMS FAULT NOT MINE.

Sheesh.

Sorry for the long rant, im just tired of seeing people self diagnose all the time, or see an energetic video, or literally ANYTHING, and make it about their self diagnosed autism.

Saw a cute cat animation on Instagram and the top comment was "This is so autistic I love it"

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I’m sure this has been ranted on before, but I watched The Last Jedi again last night and it just bothers me so much how Fin and Rose Tico need to go on this wild journey to find the code breaker, and the movie focuses on this heavily for it to not apply to the arc of the story whatsoever. It’s not like they get caught and then miraculously find another way to take down the empire, they get caught and then luckily escape, but did literally nothing to help the rebellion. It’s just feels like an odd disconnected story, ending with like everyone in the rebellion getting killed.
There are many other painful moments in the film, but this is just such a massive part of the film with 0 outcome, which makes it feels like a waste of time.
Rant over